dot- this problem drags on and on....
and
again i'll suggest that you change the way
requests are made.
move requests to a public forum
( remove the birthday forum if you need the space...
why is that still here?)
that requires persons making requests to be
forum members ( IMO- a good thing),
and allows the rest of us to aid in the policing.
there's those of us that have an agenda
(requests for kerry livgren, pain of salvation, ect.
...say no more)...
...those that are attempting to foist their superior tastes
in music on the rest, requesting music from their collections,
and likely, bands using fanlists to promote.
i have to say that would be tempting.
i could probably convince the majority of my mailing list
(over 700) to drive you insane (but i won't.....
yet 
k